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Idols in Your Life: Have You Replaced God?

Idols in Your Life: Have You Replaced God? What is an idol? An idol is an image or other material object representing a deity to which religious worship is addressed (http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/idol?s=t, 2013). In other words, an object representing a god and is constantly look towards for worship. As a follower of Christ, there are certain […]

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School Stress: 11 Tips on How to Keep From Going Crazy

School Stress: 11 Tips on How to Keep From Going Crazy   Do you ever feel overwhelmed from life? Whether it’s school, home, God, boyfriend/girlfriend, [insert craziness here], trying to multi-task the many hats of life can become very overwhelming. You may be asking yourself, “How do I handle it all without hurting my relationship […]

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Innocence Lost: Healing from Sexual Abuse

Innocence Lost: Healing from Sexual Abuse Over the years hearing many stories from teens about their sexual past, I’ve noticed several reoccurring themes. One of these being, innocence lost. Somewhere in their early childhood a doorway was opened. Either through being introduced to pornography at an early age, being touched or having sexual interactions with […]

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Heart Work: Forgiving Yourself

Heart Work: Forgiving Yourself Forgiveness has always been a hard thing for me. There have been times in my life when people have really let me down to say the least. However, when I gave my life to Christ I was called to live differently. To become more like him. Whether I liked it or […]

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Modesty: Dress to Impress

Modesty: Dress to Impress   “But you must be careful so that your freedom does not cause others with a weaker conscience to stumble” (1 Cor. 8:9). After being away from the shopping world for almost 2 years, I walked into a clothing store in the mall thoroughly confused at the clothes I saw. I […]

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Self-Worth: Thank You Paid For

Self-Worth: Thank You Paid For   I was ringing my items up in the supermarket one morning with my eighteen-month-old daughter when the cashier asked her if she wanted a sticker. Of course she said yes so the cashier gave her one of those, “Thank You Paid For” stickers. She put it right on her […]

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Skinny vs. Fat

Skinny vs. Fat   It’s EVERYwhere!! The pressure to be the perfect size, length, width, age, color, you name it. Ladies are constantly pinned against each other telling the other one their [enter body shape, part, hair, whatever here] is better. Whether it’s someone calling the other too fat or one calling the other too […]

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Jealous Ex-boyfriend: 6 Ways to Defend Your New Love

Jealous Ex-boyfriend: 6 Ways to Defend Your New Love So you found this new love, it’s different, it’s rewarding, satisfying, it’s something you never thought you could find. You have never experienced a love like this. You spend a few weeks, maybe a few months working on this relationship. You never thought you could be […]

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Little Girl: God Loves You

LITTLE GIRL     This past March I shared my testimony in front of my church of about 1200 people (with all three services combined). I shared my pain, struggles, and most of all the triumph I had with sexually purity through my relationship with Jesus Christ. People said I had a lot of courage. […]

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Meaning of Your Name

I remember asking someone when I was about 8 years old what my name meant. Their answer was, “Nina? Nothing!” This memory has stayed with me for a long time mostly because I was looking for affirmation. I was looking for someone to give my life meaning and to know I was loved. This is […]

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Enter Name Here

  Enter Name Here Trash, ugly, attitude, slut, mean, nasty, (enter name here), these were all names I have been called growing up. Whether it was walking down the hallway, after breaking up with a boyfriend, or walking into the cafeteria, there was no hiding from how people felt about me. I got so used […]

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